Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Just like when Momma was a Kid.....

 
Dear Monkey,
 
 
      A couple of weeks ago, we took you on one of the first trips to Maine that you may remember when you grow up. You loved it like Mommy and Daddy do. It is one of Mommy's favorite places to go in the world and I can tell you may be the same way.
 
      We spent lots of time on the lake. You loved your Bat mobile floaty.

 


 
     And you pretended to be a superhero in your new swimsuit. 



And, we took you to your first trip to Santa's Village.... You didn't want to leave!


 
You rode on your first rides by yourself. You were so proud and we were proud of you! 


      You loved the penguin statues... Probably because they were wearing a hat.


                   And you saw the big man. You told him you wanted dragons.

                  We also played the Elfabet game! You found almost all the letters. You loved stamping the card yourself.

                There was also ice cream and a visit to one of our local eateries! All in all a great trip! You have been asking when we can go back. We will go in a few weeks... but for now you will just keep asking to go. Just like when Mommy was a kid!
 
 
Love,
Mommy

In Which my Little Boy does Big Boy Things....

 
       Over the weekend we did two things with Monkey. The first- we saw Despicable Me 2 in the theater. It was fun and he was so great!
 
 
        The second thing we did was that we went to the Out of the Box Festival in Boston.  The festival had a lot of different performances and best of all they had a lot of FAMILY performances for free! Mr and I found out that Choo Choo Soul would be there and immediately made plans to take the boy in to see them.
 
        Choo Choo Soul is like the {insert popular band that tours kinda infrequently here} for toddlers. And the boy LOVES them. He used to blow kisses to Genevieve as a baby. This concert was made for him. So, on a gorgeous Sunday morning, we packed up the family in the car and headed for Boston Common.
 
       First of all, the community connection and atmosphere was incredible. There were 12 stages and lots of activities for families to do together. It was refreshing. We rode the Carousel and headed over to the stage, stopping (as is tradition) to get a lemonade from the street vendor. Monkey got his own, and clutched it as if he had found the holy grail of drinks. We headed over to the Park Street stage. Because we had gotten there early, we had our choice of spots, and we set up right up front.... while they were doing their sound check. The boy was excited to see Genevieve, DC and the dance crew. His first "rock" show.  
 

       I would like to state for the record that I will gladly give money to Choo Choo Soul anytime they want to come to town. They were amazing during sound check, talking with the families who were setting up shop while they were singing. Then the most glorious part of my son's day came. Genevieve came out and started talking with the kids and taking pictures. My son (ever the charmer) walked up to her and gave her a hug and told her he loved her. She hugged him back, kissed him on the cheek and asked if she could be his girlfriend and he told her yes. Then we snapped these two glorious photos!





           He ran back over screaming "Genevieve my girlfriend, momma!" She and I looked at each other and burst out laughing. He was so excited. I don't even think that she understands what she did that day that makes me so grateful, but I am. Mikey now has met a role model that he watches and idolizes and she took the time to spend a moment talking with him. She gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek and told him he was awesome and to keep being awesome. I am forever grateful for the two minutes she spent showing my son that he mattered. (Side note, I want to point out, that she is without makeup there, and she did the entire show wearing a long sleeve polyester conductor suit and no makeup. Rock on!)


         The show was amazing. It was so energetic and they really get the kids and the parents up and dancing and singing along. She made a comment that she wants to show little girls that you can make your dreams come true and not have to show some skin to do it. By the time it was over, I was willing to pay to see the second performance even though it was free. But we had places to go. So we had a quick lunch and went back to our car... where Monkey was out less than 5 minutes after we strapped him in.



       Monkey constantly shows us that he can handle going out and doing fun and new things. He is always open to trying stuff but also he is polite and respectful and that is so important to us. But also... I am happy to do these things with him as we start to create memories that last a lifetime.

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

A Bit o' Physical Comedy for You!

                          Ever slip on a banana peel and fall on your face? That is pretty much what happened a couple of weekends ago when I slipped on a leaf on a friends porch and fell and my legs came down after. It hurt a lot, but I think what made matters worse is that I tried to walk it off for two days. Then it looked like this.....
 
 

The pain was excruciating. So I went to the ER. Five hours later I was placed in an air cast and sent home on crutches with a severe sprain. And my leg looked like this....

 
I spent the following day sleeping and catching up on TV with my foot up.  The next day I returned to work and have been on a somewhat normal schedule since.

                     Except Mr. has been really awesome and has been picking up a lot of the slack because I have had to elevate my foot. He has been on night duty for a week and he has been all around awesome. Good lord I am lucky.

In Which My Little Man Hits a Lot of Milestones, Has a Great Weekend and Finally Gets Some Sleep

         I have been meaning to do this post for a while, but I have been laid up with a badly sprained knee. (In related news, I hate crutches, which I will write about in my next post.) Last week was filled with many milestones. The first of which is that the boy turned two.  We spent the morning playing at home. He has been going through sleep regression, so he had not been sleeping well. He opened presents and took a nap.

 
              Then Mr, Monkey and I went to the Children's Museum here in Boston. He had a blast, and we did too. The museum sure has changed since I was a kid!  





                 Then we took Monkey to his favorite restaurant where they brought him cake and sang. The child was so excited. And the cake was delicious!


 
                       He also finished his school year in the Toddler One classroom and now we get to look forward to the Toddler Two classroom. The program turns into a summer camp/transition classroom from now until September. To celebrate the end of the school year, the daycare had a BBQ with a petting zoo and bouncy houses. We loved it all...



This just in... Bouncy Houses are a hit with toddlers.


                      Saturday was Monkey and my Nephew's Birthday party. We did it at a park not far from where I grew up. We were able to use the pool and it was a gorgeous day. Monkey loved singing along with everyone!


And much cake was consumed by all.


We also had a bouncy house... which went over with all the toddler excitement you would expect.

                            Then Sunday was Father's Day... After all the festivities of the day before, we had a somewhat laid back family day. I made homemade pancakes, we showered Mr. with all the presents and love. I also made orange creamsicle cake and we had Indian buffet.

                           At the end, Monkey was given his first lollipop. He loved it!



 

 
                          The good news is that the sleep regression is getting better. He has (knock on wood) been sleeping through the night once we get him to sleep. 
 
 







Thursday, June 6, 2013

Funny thing happened on the way to Daycare...

             Yesterday started out with a 4:30 a.m. wakeup call. Ugh. Monkey and I left for school and began the back and forth about napping on the way to school. He was yelling no at me, so I took away his car that he had managed to find in the back seat. He started screaming and in 30 seconds there was silence.
 
I looked back and this is what I saw....
 

Yep. That is the look of a toddler who was in no way tired. He didn't need a nap at ALL.

Friday, May 31, 2013

#Boston Strong



             Sometimes, a cause is so great that I shell out a decent amount of money and go have fun for charity. Last night was one of those nights. Last night, I left Mr. at home with the Monkey and headed to TD Garden here in our beloved Boston for the Marathon Show. (Mainly because I couldn't get two tickets. The concert sold out in 5 minutes.) I left work early to get there with minimal traffic interruptions, got a sweet parking space (yay pre-order parking!) and headed to a local bar, The Harp, for dinner and drinks. Y'all, their Mac n' Cheese was quite possibly designed to be orgasmic.

              As the show got close, I headed over to the Garden with all the other excited concert goers. The paperless ticket system was so amazing. They should do it for every concert. I got through, was handed a program and headed to my seat. My seats were great. I quickly made friends with those around me including the usher. The local band pre show entertainment was so much fun! I found out talking to the usher that no one was getting paid. This show was completely volunteer. That floored me. No one was in it for the money. 100% goes to The One Fund, Boston. Sadly, it was not televised for the world to see.

            Finally, the show started and it was a five hour emotional roller coaster that was the best concert experience I had ever had. The two disappointments were the J Giles Band (minus J Giles) and Aerosmith. The show on the whole was so solid. James Taylor and Carol King were amazing. And the whole place sang along with them to "On the Roof" and "You've Got a Friend". NKOTB was amazing as always and the whole place shook when they introduced Bel Biv Devo and Boyz II Men. Dropkick Murphys singing "Shipping up to Boston" shook the whole arena, because everyone was up dancing and singing with the band. Extreme reunited for one night only and Boston rocked the house with "More than a Feeling"There were tears, laughter, and lots of love there. I just wish everyone could have felt it.

              The concert ran 5 1/2 hours and no one cared. No one thought about work or what had to be done tomorrow. It was all about the night, helping the survivors and healing our city. The finale where Aerosmith called everyone out and the entire building sang "Come Together" and "Dirty Water" pretty much summed up the feelings.

We will come together.
We love that Dirty Water.
Boston is our home.


Thursday, May 30, 2013

Terrible Twos?





My Dear Little Monkey, 

What has happened? You have all of a sudden turned into the two-face of a toddler. One second you are hugging me and the next second you are throwing an epic tantrum.

Look, I know that this is going to happen. And you know what? I am there for you.

It is tough being you. You want to tell me so much, but don't know exactly how to say it yet. You are starting to realize that you can't always have it your way and that makes you mad. You want independence. I get it. I have been there.

And this is not the last time you will try to assert that you are your own boy. You answer to no one. Except, in reality, you do. You answer to Daddy and to me. And if you answer rudely or hit, you get a quiet time out.

Everyone has their moments, even Mommies and Daddies... It is hard to convey a point. That doesn't change. Everyone gets frustrated with their life or a situation. Just know you can always talk to us. Your Daddy and I will always try our best to understand. We are never the bad guys. We are there for you. We want you to succeed in everything you do. Trust me, if something makes us scratch our heads trying to figure out what you are doing; we will tell you so.

That doesn't mean there won't be screaming and yelling... because that is going to happen. But none of that ever means we don't love you to pieces. It just gets frustrating sometimes.

I just had to say that. You are an amazing kiddo. You are generous, thoughtful and polite. I am so proud of you, especially when we are around older kids who push and don't use their manners. You constantly get complements about your behavior at restaurants and stores. We took you to Toys r' Us and you had no problem putting things back that you wanted. You are a great kid.

This is just a phase. We will get through it... like we will every tough phase ahead of us.

I love you Monkey!

Love forever and always,
Mom

P.S. Keep the European kiss thing you are doing right now. It is super cute, and when you grow up I bet the girls will love it.

Friday, May 10, 2013

No Ordinary Bag....


This. This is no ordinary bag... It didn't cost hundreds of dollars and I didn't have to stand in line for hours to obtain it. It was made with little hands and a lot of love.

It is a present my little Monkey made me for Mother's Day.  He was so excited for me to open it, and I was excited to do so. He kept telling me about every button and how Nana helped. Later, he told me it could hold my dice.... which is true.

It is better than any other bag I know of. I love it so much.

Cake for the Masses

So I have discovered the secret to true chocolate bliss.

And that, my Internet friends, is called flour less chocolate cake. We had a game day this past weekend where we had gamers who needed a gluten free dessert. So I offered up the recipe for this delectable treat.

The ingredients are: eggs, butter, a lot of chocolate, cocoa powder and both granulated and powdered sugar.

Hard to go wrong with that combo...


The butter is put into a double boiler with the chopped chocolate and melted stirring as often as you can until it is smooth and shiny. Meanwhile, preheat the oven to 350 and grease a spring form pan using butter. Put 6 eggs and sugar into the bowl of a stand mixer and beat on medium for 5-8 minutes until the mixture is pale and thick.  Let the chocolate cool a little before mixing.

Gently fold in the chocolate until it is fully incorporated.  Then pour into the cake pan and bake for 40-45 minutes, until inserting a knife comes out almost clean (just a few crumbs).

Then the best part.

Once it cools, sift some powdered sugar and cocoa over the cake and voila!


So delicious. So amazing. Try it.

Also put whipped cream on it. You will thank me.

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

What It Means to Be a Mom...

With Mother's Day approaching, I keep seeing these articles on what it means to be a Mother.  Let's face it.... we are awesome. We can handle anything. I mean we handled childbirth, right?

We know all we ever need to about cars, superheroes, monsters and children's programing. We don't mind reading that book for the 200th time, and still don't mind when we don't make it all the way through. We listen to a song over and over because they were polite and used "please" and "thank you".

As a working mother, I am able to shift from my work hat to my mom hat without delay. The best part of my day? The first moments I see him when I pick him up. He gets excited and runs over to give me a hug and 3 kisses (one on each cheek and one on the nose).  Then I get to share a ride home with him, where he tells me about his day or we sing... usually both. I miss him terribly during the day, but I think that is what makes our time at night so valuable.

I know his every quirk, can speak his language, can make him laugh with just a face, make his boo boo better with a kiss, and be his hero when he needs it.

It is awesome.

He fills my heart more than I ever thought possible. I am his mom and his buddy, and he is my little man.

I am his chauffeur, chef, playmate, chief cuddler, Mama Cat, and lullaby singer.

He is my sidekick, audience, baby cat and hugglemonster.

But what does this do with being a mom?

Everything.

Because that is what my little boy means to me.


I mean.... How can you deny this face?

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

What my 22 Month Old Loves...


  • Mater
  • Cars
  • Trucks
  • Cars the Movie
  • The Wiggles
  • Super Grover
  • Thomas the Tank Engine
  • Chicken Nuggets
  • Reading
  • The Easter Bunny
  • Santa
  • Mater
  • Pirates
  • Cowboys
  • Kittys
  • Did I Mention Mater?
  • Milk
  • Pirate Booty (Pronounced in Toddler as Pirade Boody)
  • Singing Happy Birthday!
  • Classic Rock
  • Bagpipes
  • Playing with his friends
  • Dice

My little boy is almost two!

 
(Monkey and Mr. at Easter)
 
 
Every once in a while I look at my little guy and say, "He isn't a baby anymore. He is totally a little man." This makes me sad on many levels. Mainly because there is no more cuddle time with Momma unless it is the 5-10 minutes after he gets up. I treasure those moments of quiet as we cuddle on the couch and he holds my hand as he sips from his dinosaur sippy cup.
 
"Did you have any dreams last night?" I ask him.
 
"Yeah...dreamed of Mater" He responds.
 
 
He starts talking half in English and half in Toddler speak (which I am pretty sure is English, but I can not figure out what he is saying).  And within minutes, he is on the floor playing trucks. Leaving his Momma in the dust, or in this case alone on the couch.
 
That shortness of cuddles and his toddler attitude, makes me sad.
 
But there is also the awesomeness that comes with him growing up.
 
Last night we went out for a mother/son date night, just dinner, but special none the less. We went to an Uno's right down the street from our house. We were stuck in traffic for a while, but by the time we reached the restaurant he was whiny. I had committed at that point, so we went in and it was like we flipped a switch. We played toddler games on the Ziosk, talked about his day (and his desire to have a friend for a play date) and enjoyed a meal together. He was also excited that there was a baseball game on the TVs in our area. There was a couple behind us who loved talking to him. It was sweet really.
 
When we were done, he walked out to the car holding my hand and we sang all the way home. He stopped at one point and said, "Tired Momma. Bed." I told him that we could go to bed when we get home. He helped set up his bed and then went to his changing table. He helped me get him dressed and gave me a hug and a kiss. After I tucked him in, I turned on his humidifier and turned out the light. Before I could say it, he chimed in "Night Momma! I love you!"
 
Sometimes, getting older isn't that bad at all.


Monday, February 4, 2013

The Story of the Zeppole

Zeppole, or Italian fried dough is delicious. It is also a family tradition for Mr. A couple of Christmas' ago, when I was pregnant with the Monkey, my father in law made a comment lamenting the fact that they did not get his mother's zeppole recipe from her before she passed on. It got my husband thinking, and one night he said, "Do you think we could find THE zeppole recipe and surprise my parents?" Of course I said yes, but having never tackled doughs and yeast and such I was a tad nervous. Plus I had no clue where to start. Each region of Italy had about 5 different ways to make it and we didn't know how she made it, or even if she made it from scratch. So we searched, no luck. The real problem was that no one really paid attention to the ingredients, so I would ask "does it have  [insert ingredient here]?" and my husband responded  "I don't think so."

This search went on until New Year's. I got the answer in my stocking. It was a cookbook that was written by the son of a Calabrian mother.

Yes, that Stanley Tucci wrote a cookbook with his mother and father. In it they had family recipes and stories. I was reading it one night when a recipe caught my eye. It was for zeppole and it DIDN'T include anchovies! I book marked it and finished the rest of the book. (Fantastic by the way, I highly recommend it.)

This weekend we were invited over for Sunday dinner. This was our chance to surprise them. But first we had to test them out. In the morning, I placed the potatoes in cold water and brought them to a boil. Once they were done, I took some of the hot water and let it cool for a moment. I mixed in the yeast until it was dissolved, and let it sit while peeled and mashed the potatoes until smooth. (This was easier the next day when I employed my food processor with the job. ) I mixed in a cup of flour and the yeast. Then I mixed in two more cups of flour and mixed in Kosher Salt. Then came the tough part.

The kneading. I kneaded that dough for a good 30 minutes, kneading in flour until the dough was dry. Kneading is the best arm muscle exercises ever. My arms were so sore after the first day. They are even worse today.

After the kneading I put it in a flour coated bowl and covered with a towel to let it rise. It sat for two hours, and then we got our fry on. Using corn oil, I poured an inch into a frying pan and then heated it to 330 degrees. I fried two at a time. "With a couple of tweaks we have the dough", my husband informed me with a smile.

The next day, I did the process again and we prepped the dough. Instead of a little kosher salt, I coated the top of the dough and mixed it in. It rose as we drove to my In-Laws.

At this point, I must admit I was petrified. I was taking a beloved family favorite and trying to recreate it. If this botched, I would feel horrible. Mr. was so excited.

I fried the first two and gave one to my husband and one to his father. I went back to frying and my father in law just came out to the kitchen. "I haven't had Zeppole this good since my mother made them" and proceed to eat three of them. I explained how I figured it out, and we chatted about the cookbook.

He thanked me and was excited, but I didn't notice how excited until we walked in the door after and the phone was ringing. Since no one really calls us on the land line, I picked up getting ready to give a telemarketer a hard time. I was surprised to find my father in law on the other end. "I just wanted to call and say thank you for doing that. I never expected that in a million years." After I told him it was no big deal really, he told me it was. No one had ever attempted to try and make it, and making it from scratch meant so much to him. We talked for a moment, and then we hung up as Monkey had to go to bed. Mr. gave me a hug. "You did it. Thank you."

So now my niece, nephew, and my children will have the zeppole their parents had as kids. I intend on showing Monkey when he is old enough and he can carry on the tradition as he carries on the family name.

It is refreshing to me how great it is that we learn about our ancestors through food. Food is a universal language. It is comforting, daring, filled with love, made with laughter surrounded by family. We cook in times of joy, grief or even just as a just because moment. We make memories with food.

I will leave you with a word of wisdom from my grandmother, told to me in the kitchen of her house in 2002.  "The kitchen is the heart of the home. It beats always."


Zeppole Recipe:

Makes enough for 10 people (or 5 people, because it will get eaten)

Ingredients:

4 medium sized all purpose potatoes
4 cups of flour
1 cup warm water
1 packet of dry yeast
kosher salt
Corn oil for Frying

1) In a pot of cold water, bring the potatoes to a boil and let them cook for 15 minutes or so, until they are fork tender.

2) In a cup of warm water, mix in yeast until it dissolves.

3) Peel the potatoes and place them in a food processor, pulse until smooth. 

4) Mix in one cup flour and the yeast.

5) Mix 2 more cups of the flour.

6) Knead dough until smooth and incorporate flour until it is dry in the center.

5) Place in a flour coated bowl, cover with cloth and leave in a warm dry place for 2 hours.

6) In a skillet, pour the corn oil so that it is 1 inch deep and heat it up to 325 degrees.

7) Fry 2 (2 tablespoons worth of the dough for each with a hole in the middle) at a time, 3-5 minutes on each side until golden and puffy like a donut.

8) Place on a baking sheet covered with paper towels. Serve while hot or at room temperature. Better just out of the fryer, trust me.

Alternate versions~

As I learned you could make these zeppole into sandwiches. Just cut in half and put some cheese, prosciutto, salami, etc. in the middle.

Also you can include anchovies... if you like that sort of thing.

Or, you can place in a bag with powdered sugar and shake. Lots of fun for the kids.

In Which I Play Catch Up Yet Again....

Time moves so fast. It is February... and I have yet to write a post in 2013.

Why you may ask yourself?

Because working, running after a rambunctious toddler, keeping up with house stuff, time with my husband and taking 5 minutes to read a book I have little to no time for me. On average, per week, I spend 14 hours of it driving to and from work or work/daycare. Think about that for a second. I spend half a day in the car every week driving. It makes me tired just thinking of it.

And it is flu season.

And I am recovering from the best Christmas ever. Seriously. The sense of wonder in my son's eyes as he learned about Santa and his elves, singing Jingle Bells at the top of his lungs and searching for lights during car rides was such an amazing experience. It was like rediscovering the holiday all over again! We even got to take him to the POPS Christmas Concert. (A dream of mine) We drank egg nog and ate cookies and danced along with the sing along. Life is good.

Seeing everything with my 19 month old is like seeing the world for the first time. He is fascinated with being forward facing, watching me cook, looking at things baking in the oven, reading, and playing pretend. He is addicted to cars, animals and singing songs with motions. He tells me my voice is pretty and prefers it when "momma sing" and I am happy to oblige him.

It is quite obvious to me that my baby is growing up. The process is happening faster now. He listens (sometimes), follows directions (again sometimes), tells me what he wants in full sentences and uses please and thank you. He is showing how amazingly compassionate he is, how caring he is, how loving he is and how smart he is every day. I am blown away at how much he is like me (my parents have backed up that fact) and how much he is like his uncle.

I have made some resolutions for this year. Here they are.

1)  Put down the technology until after bedtime. Seriously. I notice how much I reach for my phone/tablet to check e-mail, make lists, check social media. I only get so long with the little guy.  (I am already so bad at this. But trying so hard.)

2) Feel good about myself. Seriously, I try to lose weight and it doesn't work. This year I am on a medicine that makes me really hungry which makes loss harder. So this year I will work harder to understand why people think that I am beautiful and treat myself in the same manner. It is time to shake the self esteem issues that have plagued me for what seems like forever. This one is for me and for my son and any future children I may have.

3) Enjoy every milestone with the little guy. Time moves so fast. I want to treasure the little moments.

4) Try to recreate heritage recipes. I want to teach my kids to cook the same things that I watched my mother and my grandmother make. Part two of this is to document them and print them out as cookbooks for my kids for when they are older. This way there are no recipes that are lost between the cracks.

Friday, November 2, 2012

Have you ever noticed....

Have you ever noticed that when you have a kid, hardly anything annoys you about other people's kids?

I mean sure the rude ones grate under your skin.... kinda like nails on a chalkboard.

But I saw a little girl running from a car to the playground today and the mother was frantically running after her to keep up. I couldn't help but giggle at the scene. It was just sweet to me. Before kids, Mr. and I would see a kid do that and say "why can't they keep their kids under control?" Now it is funny and adorable when the child screams "Let's play tag mommy!" and takes off. The mother to her credit, was very fast to catch up and took it all in stride.

Also, have you noticed that things regarding children on TV hits you like a cement bag to the gut?

Seriously, any time news stories or shows about children in danger happens the tears well up and the blubbering starts or the unnerving feeling sinks in. And the sentimental commercials.... forget it. Hallmark ads are the worst. And the ASPCA ads with Sarah McLaughlin - those ads I had to shut off when I was pregnant because I would really be a mess once they were over.

Also, have you noticed that after a tantrum a toddler can snuggle up on your lap and all is forgiven?

That one shocked me too.

Disney and Star Wars

Many people are asking me what I think about Lucasfilm and Disney.


Holy crap it is AWESOME!

Now before I am berated by geeks everywhere.... let's face it, we wanted this. We wanted Lucas to step aside and hand the franchise over to a new generation. We wanted him to stop changing movies for the worse (I'm looking at you the end of the original trilogy). We wanted someone who will return their movies to their former glory. But also the opportunity to tell a story without injecting horrible new characters (Jar Jar) and a studio who knows what to do with the talent to make the movies actually watchable.

And... you know.... maybe release a certain Christmas special on DVD. 

And for those of you out there worried about the Disnification of Star Wars or Indy - The Avengers was the first Marvel Movie distributed under the Disney/Marvel agreement.

One could only hope for so much awesome for Star Wars.

2015 the boy will be about 4 years old. Hopefully we can take him to the movies to see them. Because money has it he is a geek... Like his parents before him...


See what I did there?

Thursday, November 1, 2012

An Almost 17 Month Old's Favorite Things


This is Monkey.... Monkey likes the following:

  • Sesame Street (Particularly: The Count, Cookie and "Elmu")
  • Cookies
  • Dancing
  • Thomas the Tank Engine
  • Mater
  • Getting into things he doesn't belong in
  • Coloring
  • Art Projects
  • Doc McStuffins
  • Jake and the Neverland Pirates
  • Mickey Mouse Clubhouse
  • Reading
  • Food!
  • Yogurt covered raisins
  • Visiting the Zoo or the Farm
  • Pumpkins
  • Ghosts that say "Boo"
  • Animals
  • Playing with Stuffed animals
  • Learning new things
  • Making food with Mommy

Tricks or Treats!

First, I hope that everyone in the path of Sandy is good and safe. We here at Musings are fine. We were home for a few days, but everyone is back to their daily schedule.
 
Now on to Halloween... Because that doesn't stop for hurricanes, tropical storms, post tropical storms, super storms and the like. 
 
 
 

This is the Monkey all ready for going Trick or Treating. We went out as a family of pirates. I don't want to brag, but the boy is smart. Our first house he was timid. Since he couldn't say trick or treat, I said it for him and the folks were great at understanding what we were doing. By the end, he was attempting to say trick or treat, telling people that ghosts say boo and thanking people for the candy.... that Daddy and I have confiscated. (17 months is too young for lots of candy).

But he got it. He really did. And he loved seeing the kids in their costumes, the lights and the fun Halloween scenes. I don't believe people who say that kids under 2 do not understand what they are told about the holidays. Because he knows what happens on Halloween and more importantly to say his please and thank you. This makes me even more excited about teaching Mikey about being thankful at Thanksgiving, giving at Christmas and all about the big jolly guy with the beard and the presents. Because he gets it. 

We only did about 10 houses, but every moment is a memory that is treasured forever.



Monday, October 15, 2012

We do what we must....

Dear Monkey,

Everyday, but some days more than others, I miss you when I leave you to go to work. I always feel that you are getting jipped by not getting to see Daddy and I as much as you probably want to. Trust me Buddy; we wish the very same thing. Today was one of those days. It is very hard to work when I think of you and wonder what you are doing.

Unfortunately, we both need to work to keep a roof over our head, food in our tummys and health insurance in case we get sick. These things are very important to keep you healthy and strong. But know that when we are home with you; we love to play, go to fun places and be with you.

My wish is that someday you will look at your childhood and remember how Mommy taught you how to make cookies or daddy playing animals on the living room floor (and how his piggy is the best). It is our goal to give you every experience we can so your childhood is the best ever.

So Mommy and Daddy both have to work. Someday you will learn that some Mommies or Daddies get to stay at home with their kids and play all day. You may be a little jealous. Remember this my little guy, we are working for the good of all of us. Be proud of your Mommy and Daddy because what we do we do for you.

But always know that deep down it breaks our heart to leave you to work - even if you are happy when we go.

Love,
Mommy

Friday, August 31, 2012

Forming the Bond

This week is the rather inconvenient (at least to us) week that day care is closed as they transition from day camp format back to school. Having to take so much time for medical stuff has left me strapped time off wise, and so I searched for babysitters.

I am so lucky to have a family that loves this little guy so much. My dad (Monkey's Grampa) and his Auntie have had him for two days and Monkey's grandma (my mom) had him on her usual Thursday. My dad heard I was trying to find coverage, and immediately told me I didn't have to worry, he would watch the little guy.

It is amazing the effect a grandfather (or grandmother) has on a child. It happened with my Grampy and I and I can see it happening with my Dad. I have recieved pictures of the little guy with his Grampa on the ride on lawn mower, reading or watching TV and sharing a snack. Whenever he spots my Dad enter the house, he freaks out (in the best way possible) and runs for a hug. Then he drags his Grampa to play with something or points to the door, sure that they will be going on another adventure.

And he forgets all about his Mommy. Not a hug. Not a kiss. Just a waive and a "Bye".

That is not a bad thing, honestly, it makes me happy. I see my Dad around my son and it triggers flashbacks of how close I was with my Grampy. The unabashed joy they have at being together is a vision I treasure and will treasure always.

We recently took a trip to Maine with the Monkey's Nana, Monkey's Grampa, Monkey's Great Nana and Monkey's Great Beepa. I was looking through the photos the other day, and the joy on every one's face when around Monkey was visible. Even my Nana, who has Alzheimer's, enjoyed every second with him. But more importantly I have the memory of my Dad I will keep in my heart forever.

It was late afternoon on Saturday, and my dad had been working on something in the cellar with my great grandfather. We were playing outside when we heard the rumble of an engine. Up the drive came my dad on the four wheeler. My dad asked"Do you mind if I take him for a ride?" He seemed almost shocked when I told him, "Sure, go ahead but be careful." And off they went. Both Monkey and his Grandpa as happy as ever as they drove down the driveway and off into the fading day. When they drove back up the driveway, my son was squealing with delight, and my dad had a huge grin on his face. "MO!" screamed my son, signing please. My dad looked overjoyed, "do you mind if I take him again?" And they off they went, looking for deer. They returned and we had dinner. When we were done, my dad and Monkey went off on yet another ride looking for deer. They drove up the driveway on the way back to the house and I can see them both genuinely grinning. 

I hope he learns a lot from my Dad. He is a pretty incredible guy.

Someday, when I am much older, he will be ditching his Mommy and his Grampa to play with his friends, go on a date, leave for college. My hope for him is that his children have the bond with his grandparents that my son has with his. So lucky I tell you!