Wednesday, April 10, 2013

My little boy is almost two!

 
(Monkey and Mr. at Easter)
 
 
Every once in a while I look at my little guy and say, "He isn't a baby anymore. He is totally a little man." This makes me sad on many levels. Mainly because there is no more cuddle time with Momma unless it is the 5-10 minutes after he gets up. I treasure those moments of quiet as we cuddle on the couch and he holds my hand as he sips from his dinosaur sippy cup.
 
"Did you have any dreams last night?" I ask him.
 
"Yeah...dreamed of Mater" He responds.
 
 
He starts talking half in English and half in Toddler speak (which I am pretty sure is English, but I can not figure out what he is saying).  And within minutes, he is on the floor playing trucks. Leaving his Momma in the dust, or in this case alone on the couch.
 
That shortness of cuddles and his toddler attitude, makes me sad.
 
But there is also the awesomeness that comes with him growing up.
 
Last night we went out for a mother/son date night, just dinner, but special none the less. We went to an Uno's right down the street from our house. We were stuck in traffic for a while, but by the time we reached the restaurant he was whiny. I had committed at that point, so we went in and it was like we flipped a switch. We played toddler games on the Ziosk, talked about his day (and his desire to have a friend for a play date) and enjoyed a meal together. He was also excited that there was a baseball game on the TVs in our area. There was a couple behind us who loved talking to him. It was sweet really.
 
When we were done, he walked out to the car holding my hand and we sang all the way home. He stopped at one point and said, "Tired Momma. Bed." I told him that we could go to bed when we get home. He helped set up his bed and then went to his changing table. He helped me get him dressed and gave me a hug and a kiss. After I tucked him in, I turned on his humidifier and turned out the light. Before I could say it, he chimed in "Night Momma! I love you!"
 
Sometimes, getting older isn't that bad at all.


Monday, February 4, 2013

The Story of the Zeppole

Zeppole, or Italian fried dough is delicious. It is also a family tradition for Mr. A couple of Christmas' ago, when I was pregnant with the Monkey, my father in law made a comment lamenting the fact that they did not get his mother's zeppole recipe from her before she passed on. It got my husband thinking, and one night he said, "Do you think we could find THE zeppole recipe and surprise my parents?" Of course I said yes, but having never tackled doughs and yeast and such I was a tad nervous. Plus I had no clue where to start. Each region of Italy had about 5 different ways to make it and we didn't know how she made it, or even if she made it from scratch. So we searched, no luck. The real problem was that no one really paid attention to the ingredients, so I would ask "does it have  [insert ingredient here]?" and my husband responded  "I don't think so."

This search went on until New Year's. I got the answer in my stocking. It was a cookbook that was written by the son of a Calabrian mother.

Yes, that Stanley Tucci wrote a cookbook with his mother and father. In it they had family recipes and stories. I was reading it one night when a recipe caught my eye. It was for zeppole and it DIDN'T include anchovies! I book marked it and finished the rest of the book. (Fantastic by the way, I highly recommend it.)

This weekend we were invited over for Sunday dinner. This was our chance to surprise them. But first we had to test them out. In the morning, I placed the potatoes in cold water and brought them to a boil. Once they were done, I took some of the hot water and let it cool for a moment. I mixed in the yeast until it was dissolved, and let it sit while peeled and mashed the potatoes until smooth. (This was easier the next day when I employed my food processor with the job. ) I mixed in a cup of flour and the yeast. Then I mixed in two more cups of flour and mixed in Kosher Salt. Then came the tough part.

The kneading. I kneaded that dough for a good 30 minutes, kneading in flour until the dough was dry. Kneading is the best arm muscle exercises ever. My arms were so sore after the first day. They are even worse today.

After the kneading I put it in a flour coated bowl and covered with a towel to let it rise. It sat for two hours, and then we got our fry on. Using corn oil, I poured an inch into a frying pan and then heated it to 330 degrees. I fried two at a time. "With a couple of tweaks we have the dough", my husband informed me with a smile.

The next day, I did the process again and we prepped the dough. Instead of a little kosher salt, I coated the top of the dough and mixed it in. It rose as we drove to my In-Laws.

At this point, I must admit I was petrified. I was taking a beloved family favorite and trying to recreate it. If this botched, I would feel horrible. Mr. was so excited.

I fried the first two and gave one to my husband and one to his father. I went back to frying and my father in law just came out to the kitchen. "I haven't had Zeppole this good since my mother made them" and proceed to eat three of them. I explained how I figured it out, and we chatted about the cookbook.

He thanked me and was excited, but I didn't notice how excited until we walked in the door after and the phone was ringing. Since no one really calls us on the land line, I picked up getting ready to give a telemarketer a hard time. I was surprised to find my father in law on the other end. "I just wanted to call and say thank you for doing that. I never expected that in a million years." After I told him it was no big deal really, he told me it was. No one had ever attempted to try and make it, and making it from scratch meant so much to him. We talked for a moment, and then we hung up as Monkey had to go to bed. Mr. gave me a hug. "You did it. Thank you."

So now my niece, nephew, and my children will have the zeppole their parents had as kids. I intend on showing Monkey when he is old enough and he can carry on the tradition as he carries on the family name.

It is refreshing to me how great it is that we learn about our ancestors through food. Food is a universal language. It is comforting, daring, filled with love, made with laughter surrounded by family. We cook in times of joy, grief or even just as a just because moment. We make memories with food.

I will leave you with a word of wisdom from my grandmother, told to me in the kitchen of her house in 2002.  "The kitchen is the heart of the home. It beats always."


Zeppole Recipe:

Makes enough for 10 people (or 5 people, because it will get eaten)

Ingredients:

4 medium sized all purpose potatoes
4 cups of flour
1 cup warm water
1 packet of dry yeast
kosher salt
Corn oil for Frying

1) In a pot of cold water, bring the potatoes to a boil and let them cook for 15 minutes or so, until they are fork tender.

2) In a cup of warm water, mix in yeast until it dissolves.

3) Peel the potatoes and place them in a food processor, pulse until smooth. 

4) Mix in one cup flour and the yeast.

5) Mix 2 more cups of the flour.

6) Knead dough until smooth and incorporate flour until it is dry in the center.

5) Place in a flour coated bowl, cover with cloth and leave in a warm dry place for 2 hours.

6) In a skillet, pour the corn oil so that it is 1 inch deep and heat it up to 325 degrees.

7) Fry 2 (2 tablespoons worth of the dough for each with a hole in the middle) at a time, 3-5 minutes on each side until golden and puffy like a donut.

8) Place on a baking sheet covered with paper towels. Serve while hot or at room temperature. Better just out of the fryer, trust me.

Alternate versions~

As I learned you could make these zeppole into sandwiches. Just cut in half and put some cheese, prosciutto, salami, etc. in the middle.

Also you can include anchovies... if you like that sort of thing.

Or, you can place in a bag with powdered sugar and shake. Lots of fun for the kids.

In Which I Play Catch Up Yet Again....

Time moves so fast. It is February... and I have yet to write a post in 2013.

Why you may ask yourself?

Because working, running after a rambunctious toddler, keeping up with house stuff, time with my husband and taking 5 minutes to read a book I have little to no time for me. On average, per week, I spend 14 hours of it driving to and from work or work/daycare. Think about that for a second. I spend half a day in the car every week driving. It makes me tired just thinking of it.

And it is flu season.

And I am recovering from the best Christmas ever. Seriously. The sense of wonder in my son's eyes as he learned about Santa and his elves, singing Jingle Bells at the top of his lungs and searching for lights during car rides was such an amazing experience. It was like rediscovering the holiday all over again! We even got to take him to the POPS Christmas Concert. (A dream of mine) We drank egg nog and ate cookies and danced along with the sing along. Life is good.

Seeing everything with my 19 month old is like seeing the world for the first time. He is fascinated with being forward facing, watching me cook, looking at things baking in the oven, reading, and playing pretend. He is addicted to cars, animals and singing songs with motions. He tells me my voice is pretty and prefers it when "momma sing" and I am happy to oblige him.

It is quite obvious to me that my baby is growing up. The process is happening faster now. He listens (sometimes), follows directions (again sometimes), tells me what he wants in full sentences and uses please and thank you. He is showing how amazingly compassionate he is, how caring he is, how loving he is and how smart he is every day. I am blown away at how much he is like me (my parents have backed up that fact) and how much he is like his uncle.

I have made some resolutions for this year. Here they are.

1)  Put down the technology until after bedtime. Seriously. I notice how much I reach for my phone/tablet to check e-mail, make lists, check social media. I only get so long with the little guy.  (I am already so bad at this. But trying so hard.)

2) Feel good about myself. Seriously, I try to lose weight and it doesn't work. This year I am on a medicine that makes me really hungry which makes loss harder. So this year I will work harder to understand why people think that I am beautiful and treat myself in the same manner. It is time to shake the self esteem issues that have plagued me for what seems like forever. This one is for me and for my son and any future children I may have.

3) Enjoy every milestone with the little guy. Time moves so fast. I want to treasure the little moments.

4) Try to recreate heritage recipes. I want to teach my kids to cook the same things that I watched my mother and my grandmother make. Part two of this is to document them and print them out as cookbooks for my kids for when they are older. This way there are no recipes that are lost between the cracks.

Friday, November 2, 2012

Have you ever noticed....

Have you ever noticed that when you have a kid, hardly anything annoys you about other people's kids?

I mean sure the rude ones grate under your skin.... kinda like nails on a chalkboard.

But I saw a little girl running from a car to the playground today and the mother was frantically running after her to keep up. I couldn't help but giggle at the scene. It was just sweet to me. Before kids, Mr. and I would see a kid do that and say "why can't they keep their kids under control?" Now it is funny and adorable when the child screams "Let's play tag mommy!" and takes off. The mother to her credit, was very fast to catch up and took it all in stride.

Also, have you noticed that things regarding children on TV hits you like a cement bag to the gut?

Seriously, any time news stories or shows about children in danger happens the tears well up and the blubbering starts or the unnerving feeling sinks in. And the sentimental commercials.... forget it. Hallmark ads are the worst. And the ASPCA ads with Sarah McLaughlin - those ads I had to shut off when I was pregnant because I would really be a mess once they were over.

Also, have you noticed that after a tantrum a toddler can snuggle up on your lap and all is forgiven?

That one shocked me too.

Disney and Star Wars

Many people are asking me what I think about Lucasfilm and Disney.


Holy crap it is AWESOME!

Now before I am berated by geeks everywhere.... let's face it, we wanted this. We wanted Lucas to step aside and hand the franchise over to a new generation. We wanted him to stop changing movies for the worse (I'm looking at you the end of the original trilogy). We wanted someone who will return their movies to their former glory. But also the opportunity to tell a story without injecting horrible new characters (Jar Jar) and a studio who knows what to do with the talent to make the movies actually watchable.

And... you know.... maybe release a certain Christmas special on DVD. 

And for those of you out there worried about the Disnification of Star Wars or Indy - The Avengers was the first Marvel Movie distributed under the Disney/Marvel agreement.

One could only hope for so much awesome for Star Wars.

2015 the boy will be about 4 years old. Hopefully we can take him to the movies to see them. Because money has it he is a geek... Like his parents before him...


See what I did there?

Thursday, November 1, 2012

An Almost 17 Month Old's Favorite Things


This is Monkey.... Monkey likes the following:

  • Sesame Street (Particularly: The Count, Cookie and "Elmu")
  • Cookies
  • Dancing
  • Thomas the Tank Engine
  • Mater
  • Getting into things he doesn't belong in
  • Coloring
  • Art Projects
  • Doc McStuffins
  • Jake and the Neverland Pirates
  • Mickey Mouse Clubhouse
  • Reading
  • Food!
  • Yogurt covered raisins
  • Visiting the Zoo or the Farm
  • Pumpkins
  • Ghosts that say "Boo"
  • Animals
  • Playing with Stuffed animals
  • Learning new things
  • Making food with Mommy

Tricks or Treats!

First, I hope that everyone in the path of Sandy is good and safe. We here at Musings are fine. We were home for a few days, but everyone is back to their daily schedule.
 
Now on to Halloween... Because that doesn't stop for hurricanes, tropical storms, post tropical storms, super storms and the like. 
 
 
 

This is the Monkey all ready for going Trick or Treating. We went out as a family of pirates. I don't want to brag, but the boy is smart. Our first house he was timid. Since he couldn't say trick or treat, I said it for him and the folks were great at understanding what we were doing. By the end, he was attempting to say trick or treat, telling people that ghosts say boo and thanking people for the candy.... that Daddy and I have confiscated. (17 months is too young for lots of candy).

But he got it. He really did. And he loved seeing the kids in their costumes, the lights and the fun Halloween scenes. I don't believe people who say that kids under 2 do not understand what they are told about the holidays. Because he knows what happens on Halloween and more importantly to say his please and thank you. This makes me even more excited about teaching Mikey about being thankful at Thanksgiving, giving at Christmas and all about the big jolly guy with the beard and the presents. Because he gets it. 

We only did about 10 houses, but every moment is a memory that is treasured forever.